Resonance

Wednesday, December 13, 2006

Bubble Wrap..

I work in a jewelry company.. and everyday I see multiple packages coming in carrying jewelry or stones.. some not very expensive and just thrown together in a bag.. and some which are very valuable.. wrapped in layers and layers of bubble wrap..

When we open the boxes to take out the stones.. the package is generally tiny.. maybe as small as my palm.. but its packed so thoroughly so as not to damage the stone that the box is generally 10 times the size of the actual package..

Yes.. inside the box.. is a package.. and between the package and the box.. yards of bubble wrap..

Today.. randomly at work.. I sort of drew a parallel in my head.. we’re all born with a certain destiny right.. some to very loving parents who can support us emotionally, spiritually and financially.. some to parents who have only love to give.. some that have only money.. some of us have the misfortune to be born in dysfunctional families that leave us emotionally scarred.. or then sometimes we’re born handicapped physically or worse.. mentally..

I guess we’re all sent on this planet with varying amounts of bubble wrap around us.. some of the well packaged ones, who don’t have to face any hardships and always have people to take care of them, protecting them from all struggles.. and some who are left out on the streets.. fighting against dirt, grime and crime.. million of stones put together in a bag… struggling so that their surface doesn’t get scratched by other stones..

I know this may not be a common school of thought.. but in my head I think.. maybe its our Karma that decides the initial number of layers that will be protecting us.. where we land up.. in what circumstances.. in what situations.. and then its we ourselves who decide.. based on our experiences and fear.. If we’ve been hurt once before.. we’ll put one more layer around us to make us less vulnerable against chipping or breaking.. If we’ve led very happy lives.. I guess we’ll be less guarded.. less protective of our feelings..


Do these layers however.. make our vision a little hazy sometimes.. clouding our judgements..

I guess at this point of time I’m just wondering.. how it would feel to live without that protective covering.. without that bubble wrap all around us.. to let the oxygen soak into every pour.. and to expose ourselves to every element..

4 Comments:

  • We'd probably die from the intensity of feeling.

    I love your analogy. Its gorgeous. Though I'd like to extend it a little further... do you think the bubble wrap in a way distances us from life? It offers protection, yes, and we get taken care of, but do you think the flip-side is we experience less? That we have a sanitised version of life, which doesn't scar, but maybe doesn't give us the pure exhiliration of feeling either.

    I'm also not certain I agree with you about the Karma determining our 'bubble-wrap' as it were. Probably because for me bubble-wrap has that downside and maybe for you its wholly positive, I don't know. I see you do in that same situation talk about protecting ourselves... and that if we're happy we're probably more open with our feelings. Maybe you're right... but the irony that really gets to me is when you close yourself off, you make sure you can't be hurt, but you also make sure you can't ever be happy.

    Anyway..long comment.. respond here or email!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 9:34 PM  

  • When I read your first para.. I felt you had interpreted it exactly the way I had meant it... I left the conclusion of my thought as an open ended question.. but yes your thought in the 1st para is exactly what I feel..

    also your line about protecting but robbing yourself the chance to be happy.. I have that quote in my diary as something that I think is extremely true... but yes in the practicality of life you tend to always lean towards the protection..

    By Blogger Ridhima, at 11:19 AM  

  • And the moral of the story is.... *Sniff* I MISS YOU! Come back! Come Home!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 2:32 AM  

  • Noooo
    No Go Home!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 10:45 AM  

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